Read MBF's blog today. she actually wrote in her blog that her Best Quote – “So since I’m not your everything, how about I be nothing at all to you?” from Beyonce’s song Irreplaceable.
it strikes me as how true those words are. i mean if we are not good enuff to be that someone's everything, why bother to be anything at all to him/her? if for example, a partner do not wish to compromise things with us and the other half is treating us like nothing special, are we okay to just settled?
if i am in a relationship, i think im selfish enuff in wanting to be that- 'everything'. i want my wishes and my opinions to be taken into account. i want him to think about me before acting on sumthing. thinking what would i feel what would i say, am not saying that my partner would have to gain my approval prior to all of his decisions but it would be great if 'me' would be taken into account.
sometimes MAN when they changes their mind, they called themselves as fickle. if we WOMEN changes our personalities and what not, we are blamed to the core of the statement-"you have changed" and that would be a reason to a break up as one has changed. i think people do change. i myself may hate vanilla today but hey i might love vanilla to the core of my being by june 2008. does that makes me fickle? no, i think it is just a change of taste buds and preferences. hey i might like you playing futsal every nite now but maybe 3 months down the road i hope you would stop playing futsal as often and spent more time with me. maybe. hence, priorities changes and we human tend to change with that. it is a lie i think if people say that they dont change.
i think we are more incline to change towards what we prioritise in life. if we think that that one person is worth the changes that we have to made in our life, then by all means, we change. that act alone doesnt make us less than what we are before. doesnt make us to be another person at all. if saying the 4 letter words is totally unheard of in your vocabulary, perhaps it takes that one special person to make it as easy as an ABC. if before, cooking and being martha stewart was sumthing totally out of this world for you, maybe once you have your own family and stuff, that would come naturally to you. at the end of the day, you would be the same person before martha stewart ;-)
therefore, i would say yeah, bring it on 2008!
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I agree. People change thats for sure but what is important is knowing that the change brings out a better side of us.
I am sure it will be a better year for all f us babe. Happy new year.
Love....
MBA,
ditto. always love...
jangan lah being selfish...
..kadang tak indah.
Mr 3F.
hmm.. the phrase to me is just a reminder that one has to be more aware of ones surroundings and be better at weighing options.
personally i dont agree with some of the lyrics of that song -- coz if the ex was an ass why would you want to replace him with another ass, despite only taking one minute? heheheehe.. i think its an ego booster song, but i just like that phrase :)
well i think a relationships strength boils down to sticking with your choice and not throw in th etowel when you discover theres something you dont fancy about ur partner. always there are also something of you he doesnt fancy.
but yeah, i agree -- change is expected. no change no possibility of progress, no?
at the end of the day, if it makes you truly happy, give it a go!
ditto love!
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